Wednesday, January 3, 2018

The Crow and the King

“Who made you king?” Crow called up to Hawk.

Hawk peered down at Crow. “I can fly the highest and fastest.”

Crow cackled. “Really? Fly to the farmer’s house and steal his watch.”

Hawk took flight. When he flew out of the fireplace the farmer’s wife hit him with a skillet.


Moral: Pride goes before a fall.

Thursday, May 21, 2015

Hello summertime!

There's nothing like spring in Nebraska! However, I'm in Kansas where spring has proved just as amazing. There have been entire days where there is just a steady downpour of rain. For a Nebraska girl from the Sandhills, the fact that one might actually NEED an umbrella is a culture shock. But the grasses are green and blooming, the few cattle I've seen are already chest-deep in luscious green stalks.
Besides the rain and green grass, things have been changing here at Main Place as well!
At the end of May, two of our staff will be leaving this season of their lives for other God-given plans. The program director is heading to San Diego to plant a church there while my roommate is leaving to spend time with her family and prepare for a siblings wedding! I've only been here for a few months, but both of these women will be greatly missed at the house.
Some of our residents are preparing to graduate the program in a few months (PTL!) and it's been such a blessing to see Jesus work in their hearts and lives and bring about understanding. 
Personally, I've been running around the country like it's my job!
The first week of May I spent a few days in Atlanta, GA with some awesome cousins! They showed me the sights, took me out to eat, and were the best Georgia parents a "homeless" child could ask for. More than anything, though, I enjoyed listening to them tell stories of all the adventures they'd had and getting lots of advice about traveling, life, and taking care of aging cats. =) For the first time in my life, I boarded an airplane by myself and worked through all the travel issues on my own! Needless to say, I'll be doing it much more frequently in the future!
Two weeks ago, I watched three of my very dear friends graduate from college! I was at their high school graduations and I was so proud to see them finish their bachelor degrees. Seeing them walk across the stage, then spending the rest of the day laughing, talking and catching up made me so thankful that Jesus kept us all together through the years. I remember crying out to God years ago, that I didn't want to lose friends like these. The cries came from a selfish place but Jesus used those friendships to force me to grow and reach out to Him more and more.
My parents celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary by sorting cattle all day. This was the first year I haven't been home to start putting cattle out to pasture on our little slice of Heaven, in 12 years or so. It was bittersweet knowing that one of my favorite spring activities was happening without me, but "God is good, all the time. And all the time, God is good."
Within the next few months, I'll be doing more traveling! In July I'm planning on taking a road trip with a college friend. In August, my partner in crime cousin, is getting married! My middle sister turns 16 and I'll be 23 this summer. June will be full of VBS', camps, and going to the pool. I'm hoping to start training to run a 10K this fall and I'm always on the hunt for a perfect cup of coffee. And thus sums up the life of a Nebraska expatriate in Kansas. =)
Prayer is often our last resort when issues arise, but God desires communication with us daily and in every circumstance. Prayers for the House this summer: that the girls will meet with Jesus while at camp in June, that they will realize God has plans for them as leaders in their communities as we work at VBS in town, and that each of them will learn that God's love for us has to spill over into loving others, no matter what we believe their circumstances to be. Prayers for the staff: that we will find a Jesus following, people loving, heart-led young woman to join our team of Teaching Parents, that God's strength in us will continue to grow, because our strength will always fail but His is always and forever present, and that we will speak the truth in love to our girls. Prayers for me personally: that I won't get homesick, that I will be present and forthright, and that Kansas doesn't smother my Nebraska roots.

Wednesday, February 4, 2015

January adventure update

Dearest friends and family,
            How time flies here in Kansas! It’s been three weeks since I've started here at Main Place Youth and January is officially over.
            A quick break down of what I’m doing here: my position is called a Teaching Parent and it’s quite literally being a parent to these girls. Along with myself there are three other Teaching Parents, Ms. Violet, Ms. Valerie, and Ms. Lenae. All of them have been here for at least seven months so they’ve been great at helping me learn the ropes! Each day my job is to make sure the students at Main Place get through their routine, which is much, much harder than it sounds!
            As we go through the day each girl earns points for positive actions like following instructions, appropriate response, accepting “no,” and others. If they do something negative they also earn negative points for that action. The points correspond to levels and the levels have certain privileges associated with them. It seems like a complicated system but it is effective!
            The teaching parents do all of the appointment running, basketball game going, and organizing of Saturday afternoon games and activities. We also have to coordinate on discipline and any requests the girls make. After doing that for a couple of weeks it quickly became evident that it was vital to be united in Christ as leaders! It’s been awesome to pray together before the day starts and learn and grow together through the church here in Kingman.
            The girls are sweet and have shown me a lot of grace as I get started here. There’s definitely a learning curve with each individual girl, feeling out exactly how they will respond to criticism, what their strengths are, and where they stand in their relationship with Christ. As the girls advance levels they are allowed to participate in school activities and sports. Most of the girls are very into music and art so it’s fun to hear them singing as they get ready for the day!
            Kingman is only 45 miles or so from Wichita so on my days off I’ve gone shopping there and checked out the city a little. It’s still far larger than any place I’ve driven on a regular basis so I still hesitate to drive there very often. The city of Kingman has a population of about 3,000 so it’s a little more familiar to drive in!
            There’s so much more that I would love to share with all of you but it’s so hard to type it out in a letter. If you think of it I would really appreciate any prayer you can spare! The first thing you could pray for is that all of the teaching parents here would continue to exhibit Christ through their interactions with the girls. Second, pray for the girls to experience Christ during their time here at Main Place. Third, if you can pray that the girls will have a true heart and lifestyle change while they are here and afterwards, that the change will stick for life.
            Hope and pray that all is well with you! Please write, call, email, or text anytime because I’d love to hear from you all!
In Christ,
Jennifer Connell
1111 N. Main Street
Kingman KS 67068

Jenn.anita.conn2010@gmail.com

Tuesday, November 25, 2014

The north wind changes everything

My dad tells a story about when he was a young man and went out hunting with his grandpa.
It was a cold and windy day, the arctic north wind a sudden change from the pleasant southern breeze that had been blowing all summer and into the fall. Even down along the river bottom with it's abundance of trees both big and small the wind zipped along, making your cheeks smart. They'd already walked a long way when Grandpa finally spied some turkeys in a clearing. They loaded their guns.
"Don't shoot unless two or more of them have their heads together," Grandpa warned. To dad it seemed like an impossible suggestion. But sure enough, as soon as two or three turkey heads were all lined up, Grandpa squeezed off a shot. By golly, he brought the birds down alright.
Unfortunately, three birds with one shot still meant three turkeys to clean in the wind and the cold.
I'm sure there's a lesson in there somewhere.
But it has always struck me that more important than the stalking, more pressing than the need for meat, out of a hunt whether for turkey, antelope, deer or bears, was the need to glean a good story.
My own deer hunting story is really one of pure luck.
It was Saturday night of closing weekend and I was heading back to college the next day (shameless plug for Wayne State College) so this was my last chance to get the big buck I'd been salivating over for a week straight while I languished in the intellectual cage known as higher education. I've always been a kid after my dad's own heart and I shared a love of hunting, though not of early morning hunting, with the guy who gave me his name.
I was nervous. Not because I might have to shoot something but because I might not kill it with a shot. I was wracked by the idea that we might have to finish off the poor booger at close range. If there was a time to make a clean shot just like we'd practiced, this was it.
We took off around 4:00 with sunset just over an hour away. The best place to find deer is along the river so over the bridge and around the bend to Grandma Jamison's house we went.
"Keep your eyes open for some deer." I quickly went to scanning the trees and hay meadows as we trundled past in the big green pickup. Nothing moved.
We topped the hill on the east side of our ground. That's when we spotted him. Across the hay meadow and standing broadside on a hill was a buck of good shooting size. I won't lie and say he was the biggest buck I've ever seen but I will say my dad shows everybody with any interest in hunting the rack from my first deer.
Anyway. We got out of the pickup, crunching as quietly as we could across the vaguely scattered snow left from a freak storm a few weeks back. The buck didn't even raise his head.
Strategically placed, because we strategically place things instead of losing them or forgetting them at our ranch, on the field was a half of an alfalfa bale. A perfect place to brace up and take aim at the old buck.
I sighted him up. Dad asked if I was ready to shoot. All I remember thinking was: if I wasn't ready now, I didn't think I'd ever be.
I squeezed off a shot. The reverberations bounced off the trees and came ringing back in waves. The bucks head came up, he ran forward a few paces, the does with him scenting the air and skittering away. He limped on three legs.
Dad squeezed off a shot beside me.
I'd like to tell you that the buck went down after that or ran away without a scratch.
He didn't.
He kept standing so I squeezed off another shot.
Nothing.
Dad gave it one more go and the first big buck I'd ever shot dropped to the ground.
All said, we hung up the deer about sunset, one of the shortest hunting campaigns I've ever heard of. But it made a good story and when you go hunting. that's really the prize you come home with. That, and the sting of a north wind on your cheeks.